My wife has asked me several times why I don’t advertise my gi diet blog to our mutual friends. Now a good portion of our mutual friends are part of a greater social network originating from the internet (hey, these are the times). Considering we both met online and currently live apart (we’re bi-nationals, she’s American, I’m Canadian), it’s not odd for us to have our friends scattered across both countries. We sometimes rely on blogging amongst each other on other sites. For the purpose of feeling free to post whatever I want to here, I won’t state which blogging site that is.
That said, yesterday one of our mutual acquaintances proceeded to post about being led into temptation with a dozen Krispy Kreme Doughnuts. My writing style isn’t stellar on here, but when he wrote that a dozen krispy kreme doughnuts just happened to ’show up’ at his apartment, I almost lost it.
In order to keep my cool (and keep any semblance of peace within our circle of buddies), I won’t respond. I refuse to. I can’t do it anymore. I will only praise and virtually hug those who post about their efforts of improvement. Not sabotage.
It really is upsetting to me, because while I understand the temptation at an intrinsic level, I don’t go about posting it to my friends in search for what???? Understanding? a pat on the back? a “there there” dear.
Have I OD’d on doughnuts in my recent past? Confession: yes. I shared a dozen with a friend of mine about 18 months ago. In total, I had 5-6 doughnuts in one sitting. The last time I had a doughnut at all was maybe 3 months ago when my wife came to visit me (our guilty pleasure is for Tim Horton’s coffee drinks and a couple of doughnuts).
I don’t have as high blood sugar as my friend here, who by his own admission consumed 8-9 Krispy Kremes in one sitting. While I’m “borderline” diabetes (glucose intolerant), I haven’t ever had a reading higher than 12 in my life (or over 215 for my american buddies). Ever.
As for my friend, among others, including a long ago ex-girlfriend of mine, they’ve had diabetic conditions as bad as nearly going blind, or blurred vision, weight gain, intense mood swings, the urge to urinate more frequent than normal, the list goes on.
Look I’m not saying that if you eat a doughnut you’re going to ruin your diet, be it for glucose or weight management.
-But try and be smart about it.
-Be aware of what your body is telling you
- Try *not* buying doughtnuts by the dozen.
- If you’re going to buy treats at all, spend the extra money and buy treats one at a time. Don’t stock up. (this is what I do. if I’m going to give in to cravings, they’re not going to be easily accessible from the pantry. I have to get off my ass and go into town)
- choose healthier options. For the purpose of us trying to follow the GI diet: - buy nuts, a bag of multigrain chips, or if you’re in the middle of a serious sweet craving, look for calorie reduced or single portion sized chocolate bars.
- Eat a healthy meal after you “fall off the wagon”
- Try a protein option for a snack. A piece of cheese, pepperoni stick. These options may not be as healthy or part of a GI diet, but it might keep you away from those crazy fat-laden carby doughnuts.
Finally, I’m not perfect either. I must insist on that. As much as I follow a GI diet, and share recipes and suggest ways to make recipes even lower GI, I still cheat. But at least these days, I try to cheat with some awareness. If I choose to have higher carbs, a high GI or GL (glycemic load), I usually offset the GL of one ingredient by making sure I have a protein mixed in.
In the case of this morning, I made french toast with 2 eggs, milk, cinnamon, and a little bit of sugar because I’ve run out of splenda. My quilty pleasure with my breakfast was light syrup, which was a mistake because as “light” as this syrup is, it wasn’t sugar free.
There’s some good that came out of reading my friend’s post, even though I will remain silent in my views. I’ve decided that when my wife and I travel this year to see our group of friends at a party, I’m going to be on my very best behaviour. I’m going to hope that our hosts will have healthy options in their buffet, stick to those healthy options only (salads, meats, multigrain bread) have maybe a little more red wine than I normally have, and lead by example.
Leading by example when it comes to friends who sabotage themselves is perhaps the best statement I can make.
On my own blog however, I can’t stop myself from leaving this opinionated rant. I won’t.
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